Think of your goals daily
Where are you going? It’s important to have a strong visual image of what success to you looks like. I start my day with some meditation and reminding myself of my long term goals. Visualize them as vividly as possible. Visualization is a great way to increase your belief in your ability to achieve your goals, by making them more “real” in your mind (your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between what’s real and imagined, and the subconscious is the main driver of your behaviors). Say them out loud in the present tense. Then think of what you need to focus on today (or this week) to get closer to your long-term goal and hold yourself accountable to these smaller goals. By achieving them, you’ll feel great from the sense of accomplishment (and fulfilling a commitment to yourself), and you’ll build the confidence you need to achieve your bigger goals.
Choose to be confident and have a great attitude
Decide that today is going to be a great day! Just by saying that to yourself can immediately make you feel better, and you help bring a better day towards you. Attitude is a choice and will shape your performances more than anything else. The best players in the world might not always perform their best, but their attitude is always consistent. Choose to be optimistic about the possibilities – the best players in the world expect good things to happen to them, and invariably they do!
Have An Attitude of Gratitude and Train Yourself To Be More Optimistic
Start off each day with 5 minutes spent thinking about what you’re grateful for. Having an attitude of gratitude is a mindset shift and overtime you will notice that it becomes more of a habit. Most of us are in the habit of dwelling on past mistakes and what we don’t have. The reality is, things could always be worse, so remind yourself of the things in your life that you are fortunate to have. You’ll feel better immediately.
Savor past memories
Have a stockpile of your most cherished memories, especially those times where you felt successful and confident in yourself. These don’t necessarily need to be golf related – simply memories that are going to trigger positive emotions. You can use these on the course whenever you’re losing confidence.
Focus on the positives
By making it a habit to review your day by the positive things that happened, you’ll begin to “train your brain” to see the positives without reminding yourself to do so. Adopt an end of day, or post-round review process which focuses on the things you did well, highlight the successes (write these down in a tool like Edufii). Give yourself credit! Be objective with those things you could have done better and set a new goal around improving them. Mistakes are a positive learning opportunity.
Don’t compare yourself to others
What other players do and how they perform is completely out of your control. By focusing on what they are doing and how you compare, you’re going to cause yourself stress and performance anxiety. Sure, you can learn from better players, but golf is not a game like tennis, soccer or basketball, where what the other player does can affect you. Your real opponent in golf is the golf course. Do your best to detach yourself from outcome – the winning, your scores etc, and dedicate yourself (and hold yourself accountable to) your own process.
Walk the walk
Studies have proven that posture and body language affect mood. If you’re body is down, your thinking and your mood will be down also. Make it a point to walk with swagger, with your shoulders back, chest out and eyes and chin up – you’ll feel more confident immediately. Smile right now, and notice how much better you feel!
Get a good night’s sleep
Sleep is so underrated in mood and getting the the most out of your performance each day. It’s been proven that less than adequate sleep can make you stressed and irritable. 8 hours of sleep is ideal for for feeling fresh, happy and ready to go.
Eat right
There’s plenty of research which shows how what you put in your body affects not just your health, but your mood, mental and physical stamina, and focus. Off the golf course, hydrate BEFORE your rounds and keep it going during.
Exercise
Exercise is one of the most powerful mood boosters. Any kind of exercise (cycling, swimming, yoga, running) will help you feel better. Make exercising at least 3 times per week one of your smaller goals. Exercise can help you deal better with stress. Phil Mickelson and speed sticks.
Thank you for reading. If you’d like to find out more about how you can train your mind for your best golf ever, please check out the Ultimate Mental Game Training System 2021.